tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-92160715630565848982024-03-04T21:38:41.065-08:00Relationship AdvisorAdvising in the complex world of men and women relationshipRoffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-77185380813739452902009-08-11T19:10:00.000-07:002009-08-11T19:19:04.907-07:00Signs of Unhappy Relationships<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?lt1=_blank&bc1=FFFFFF&IS2=1&bg1=FFFFFF&fc1=000000&lc1=0000FF&t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&m=amazon&f=ifr&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&asins=0452275350" style="width:120px;height:240px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0" align="left"></iframe><div style="text-align: justify;">Unhappy relationships should be identified before it results in a detrimental condition for you and your wife, girlfriend, boyfriend or husband. If your mate is not making you happy anymore, then you are definitely in an unhealthy relationship.<br /><br />No one really expects to be happy all the time but when you can not remember the last time the two of you had a good laugh, then it is time to move on. It would not make sense to stay in a relationship of unhappiness becuase the bottom line is that unhappiness does not constitute a healthy relationship. Talk openly with your partner and most of all do not depend on the other party to make you smile all the time. You need, however, to let the person in the relationship know if you are genuinely unhappy with how things are going between the two of you.<br /><br />Sex is good for the marriage or relationship and connects the intimacy needed between two people. If one is always having a headache or an excuse not to sleep with you then that is not a good thing for your marriage. You may require a marriage counselor for this one to get the sparks flying again because talking about this ailment is not going to be a cureall. The wife or husband may think that you are not being understanding about their lack of desire is justified. Only you know what has been going on in your relationship and why you are no longer turned on by your supposedly signigicant other. You may want to explore the reasons with a marriage counselor as the lack of sex in a marriage is unhealthy.<br /><br />If no one is talking to each other that means that the relationship is unhealthy. Communication between partners in a relationship is what keeps the relationship together and healthy. Communication involves more than two people just talking and exchanging ideas especially about the relationship. Sometimes communication involves just listening to what the other person is talking about and earnestly trying to understand what is being said. If you are just waiting to get your point across then you are not really listening. Try listening to what the other partner is saying if you think that the communication part of your relationship needs revamping. Communication is the key to understanding what the other person in the relationship has to say and can very well cure an unhealthy relationship.<br /><br />If one of the people in the relationship is having a relationship then the relationship is unhealthy and very well may be over. There is a new cultural change made by Hilliary Clinton when she stayed with her husband, Bill Clinton even though the whole country knew that he had cheated. Maybe her high profile mandated that she stay in an unhealthy relationship. It used to be that women would leave their husband having an affair but now they are standing by their man. It is most assuredly a reason other than love that women are staying in their relationship. Maybe career aspirations or family cohesiveness has to do with these women staying in unhealthy relationships. Each situation is different and professional counseling should be sought in each case of infidelity. Being in an unhealthy relationship for the kids or for the sake of status is not good and help should be sought to cure what ails this type of relationship.<br /><br />You are finding excuses not to be with your partner by working overtime when there is no work to do. You have lost interest in your partner and it is making your relationship unhealthy. You would rather be with anyone else except your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife. Why be in a relationship with someone if you do not want to be together. Such a relationship of separatism while in a relationship is unhealthy and should be brought up for discussion immediately if you want to save the relationship. Seek the help of a therapist to find out what happened in the relationship to make you want to work overtime rather than to be with your partner. This feeling of wanting to be separated from your partner makes for an unhealthy relationship that is not good for the both of you.</div>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-78118496612824409142009-05-09T08:56:00.000-07:002009-05-09T08:57:52.478-07:00The Love Dare<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&asins=0805448853&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&fc1=000000&IS2=1<1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=FFFFFF&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:240px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0" align="right"></iframe>Too many marriages end when someone says "I've fallen out of love with you" or "I don't love you anymore." The Love Dare discusses how these statements reveal a lack of understanding about the fundamental nature of true love.<br /><br />As featured in the popular new movie Fireproof, from the team that brought us the #1 best selling DVD Facing the Giants, The Love Dare is a 40-day guided devotional experience that will lead your heart back to truly loving your spouse while learning more about the design, nature, and source of true love. Each reading includes Scripture, a statement of principle, the day's "dare," and a journaling area and check box to chart progress.<br /><br />Dare to take The Love Dare, and see your marriage change forever.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-43743908373524405462009-05-09T08:48:00.000-07:002009-05-09T08:50:13.059-07:00Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships: Healing the Wound of the Heart<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&asins=1590303865&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&fc1=000000&IS2=1<1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=FFFFFF&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:240px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0" align="right"></iframe>Although this book is presented as a book on relationships, it is really about connecting with one's own deepest essence. This will, of course, have a profound effect on all of one's relationships.<br /><br />This is an essential book for anyone on a genuine spiritual path who seeks to take the leap into the non-conceptual awareness of being. The practices presented here are a tremendous support for meditation and prayer. By bringing the concepts of grievance, longing and absolute love into the realm of the body, the simple exercises in this book, if fully engaged, make the tricky business of opening one's heart easier.<br /><br />John Welwood has offered the world a tremendous gift. May all beings benefit.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-75584172199428626202009-05-09T08:46:00.000-07:002009-05-09T08:48:05.233-07:00Journey of the Heart: The Path of Conscious Love<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&asins=0060927429&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&fc1=000000&IS2=1<1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=FFFFFF&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:240px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0" align="right"></iframe>A leading psychotherapist offers advice for couples on using love's challenges to grow as individuals and in their relationships. John Welwood shows people how the most difficult and confusing areas of relationships can be used to awaken the deepest human strengths and resources.<br /><br />Where can we go to find serious and informed reflection on the turbulent and confused waters beneath our search for intimacy, our deep human need for a life companion, a soul-mate, a lover? I have found such a place, in the pages of John Welwood's new book, Journey of the Heart. Alongside so much simplistic nonsense written about relationships, this book stands out as a poetically-written, wisdom-filled guide to a deeper understanding of the desires and directions of the human heart. How rare and satisfying it is to find such a book, which takes seriously the reader's desire for truth and light in the perplexing area of intimate relationships.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-55853031855589304502009-05-09T08:19:00.000-07:002009-05-09T08:21:06.268-07:00How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&asins=1570628122&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&fc1=000000&IS2=1<1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=FFFFFF&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:240px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0" align="right"></iframe>originally sought books to help me get over a man in my life that is still IN my life, but not committed to me. We are the classic "friends with benefits" only he's benefiting more than I am...much more. This book has reinforced in a HUGE way what I already knew but chose to ignore. It teaches us how change IS scary...even if it's healthy change. It's scary because it's what we become to know and feel comfortable with after awhile. It reaches deep into the psyche and shows why we stay in relationships that aren't so healthy. It connects us to our childhood, but not in a crutching sort of manner like some readings which "blame" our current choices all on childhood incidences, but rather shows us why we possibly make some of the decisions that we do.<br /><br />You won't be disappointed in this book. I had to force myself to put it down and sleep. I read it in two days. I underlined SO many sections that applied to me. This book is a lifetime keeper!!! Get one for you or someone close to you if you feel they need to make some changes in the way they choose relationships in their lives. You (or them) will be happy you did!!!<br /><br />One warning...It's very truthful. Sometimes when you hear something you dont like, it can have a profound effect. I cried reading this book several times because it talked about my life...my thought processes and my feelings when choosing and staying with a partner.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-17801532107346237332008-12-11T07:11:00.000-08:002008-12-11T07:13:37.215-08:00<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&asins=0801065429&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&fc1=000000&IS2=1&lt1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=000000&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifr" style="width: 120px; height: 240px;" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" align="left" frameborder="0"></iframe>God wants his children to have a lasting relationship and great sex-the results of a deep, meaningful love that is rooted in commitment. Love, Sex, and Lasting Relationships, helps readers walk a path to true love that is more fulfilling than they ever imagined. "There's a better way to find love, stay in love, and grow in intimacy for a lifetime," says Chip Ingram. It's God's way. Whether single or married, happy or searching for hope, readers will discover that by following God's prescription, they can create a love that lasts. A love that can be enjoyed.<br /><br />Chip Ingram is the President and Teaching Pastor for Living on the Edge, an international teaching and discipleship ministry. His passion is to help everyday Christians actually "live like Christians" by raising the bar of discipleship. A pastor for over twenty years, Chip has a unique ability to communicate truth and winsomely challenge people to live out their faithRoffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-57113785582324179022008-12-11T06:53:00.000-08:002008-12-11T07:09:36.028-08:00Are You Compatible With Your Partner?<iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=myhommygar-20&o=1&p=8&l=as1&asins=1577312260&md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&fc1=000000&IS2=1&lt1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=000000&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifr" style="width: 120px; height: 240px;" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" align="left" frameborder="0"></iframe>To answer the above question, you might want to know about something called the <span style="font-weight: bold;">Compatibility Relationship Test</span>. Basically it is a way to determine whether you and your dating partner, your boyfriend or girlfriend, or someone new you’ve just started dating is compatible with you.<br /><br />If you take this test you will be asked questions such as desire to get married, outlook on having children. Maybe you will wonder, how accurate are the Compatibility Relationship Tests? Does it determine the true compatibility for your relationship?<br /><br />You can take free online tests, but in my opinion those tests are sometimes full of fluff and hype. Basically there are things that you should keep in mind when it comes to relationship compatibility. First, when you start dating someone, it is not the right time to ask questions to determine compatibility. You have to see someone you just start to date as a prospect for a long term relationship partner.<br /><br />Bob Grant, a relationship counselor with over fifteen years in relationship and couples counseling experience explicitly says in his book How to Find The Man of Your Dreams, that women do not know what to talk about on dates one, two and three and thus making the mistake of trying to determine compatibility too soon. He says, while on the first date, those questions that women typically ask men are not the ones that will get you a second date and a long term relationship to follow.<br /><br />So probably the conclusion is, while dating someone new, trying to run relationship compatibility tests with your new partner is not the right strategy to secure a long term relationship.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-12500161649800653012008-11-11T21:43:00.000-08:002008-11-11T21:45:28.186-08:00How to Spice Up your Marriage or Love RelationshipEnduring love relationships or marriages need some attention, care and love on a consistent basis so that they can stay revitalized, growing, and strong. If you believe that intimate and marriage relationships can stay alive if you do not feed them, you're wrong. In order to keep the love you have from dying, you've got to give time to developing and growing that love, in whatever way it fits for your relationship.<br /><br />One feature of lasting love relationships and marriages that sometimes vanishes after so many years of being together is attraction physically. Some couples begin to feel that their love making has grown tired and unexciting. They also could notice they are so involved with kids, other responsibilities or careers that they simply don't have time or energy for closeness with one another. Couples permit their physical relationship to be ignored and permit different activities to get in the way of truly being together.<br /><br />Rejuvenating your love relationship or marriage begins with creating a heart connection between the two of you, and that can be done in several different ways. It takes devotion to establishing this sort of connection and a willingness to let what's happened in the past remain just where it should be, in the past. This requires being truly honest about what things you are feeling, and will mean a clean slate in making love with each other. In order to revive love and passion, it may be a benefit to you to do activities that both of you used to enjoy together but don't do anymore. It also could mean starting something new with each other that would help you build that feeling of companionship and togetherness like you once felt.<br /><br />Intimacy in long-term love and marriage relationships needn't disappear. There are a couple of really simple things you as a couple can do right now to revive love and romance that was once between you. One way is to make it a point to find a couple of minutes to get together and really talk about what things you each need to have more of in your marriage or relationship. The challenge is to remain candid and honest without pointing a critical finger at your partner. Would you simply like to go out without the kids each week? Would you like to have dinner together one day of the week? Would you like your partner to be more affectionate? If that's the case, what does affection mean to you?<br /><br />Creating deeper love and more excitement in your love or marriage relationship is possible, and it's a lot easier than you may think. Make the decision right now that you want and need a more satisfying relationship. Start today to let more love and passion in your relationship and see for yourself how it begins to change, and for the better. Begin now to create what you want for your life experience.<br /><br />Article written by <a title="Brian Harbinson" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/brian-harbinson/19658.htm">Brian Harbinson</a>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-25358871675447485032008-08-18T23:05:00.000-07:002008-08-18T23:06:39.493-07:00why choose Internet dating?Internet dating is KING and here is why.<br /><br />It's cheap<br />It's quick<br />It's fun<br />It's simple to use<br /><br />There are thousands of women in your area now online. And the biggest reason of all, IT'S A GREAT PLACE TO LEARN WITHOUT THE FEAR OF FACE TO FACE REJECTION!<br />Like it or not, rejection is part of the dating process, even the hottest most<br />successful guys with dating get rejected more times then they hear a yes.<br />In someways dating is a numbers game, but most men have TERRIBLE odds when it comes to<br />dating. <br /><br />That is the reason why internet dating is the best right now!Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-50121878229566617682008-03-04T18:58:00.000-08:002008-12-09T23:58:10.362-08:00Why you should join a dating website<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheumknktyQXcRbzL8mZECcy2EqNQiatCacdda1dsgq2CyiWsgUWG-hPLuAdk8lqT7ZyLXbO2Vtag_qKKMaU3P9KrhaMxnHmnieaXlKikaLx8Q-E2PwVhc8QPbalOGnXkRi-5-phAJR0qA/s1600-h/couple2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheumknktyQXcRbzL8mZECcy2EqNQiatCacdda1dsgq2CyiWsgUWG-hPLuAdk8lqT7ZyLXbO2Vtag_qKKMaU3P9KrhaMxnHmnieaXlKikaLx8Q-E2PwVhc8QPbalOGnXkRi-5-phAJR0qA/s320/couple2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5174100363326587906" border="0" /></a><br />In this post I would like to give advice on why you should join a dating website. If you are tired of staying home alone or want to find someone nice to date and possibly someone you can love, then why not you consider to join a free dating web site. It will be very appropriate for you if:<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />You want to meet someone</span><br /><br />If you want to meet someone to date or possibly to fall in love, where are you going to meet him or her? if you think a bar is a good place to meet, then think again. On internet dating website you can view their profile and find out their information. You could view a photo and see if he or she appeals to you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You want to enhance your happiness</span><br /><br />A man or a woman cannot make you happy, but they can add very much to your happiness. If you feel that you have something to offer a man or a woman, why not join a free dating web site and give someone a chance? This can be the perfect opportunity to meet someone who can share your life.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You are seeking to break out of your comfort zone</span><br /><br />Our comfort zone is a feeling of security for us. Many of us do not want to leave our comfort zone, however after a while, we find that we are in a rut. Each day ends up blending into the next and we feel we are just going through the motions of living. If this is the case with you, you may be able to meet some nice people and break out of your rut, as well as get out of your comfort zone if you join a free dating web site. Here you can meet other people who are most likely in the same position as you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You enjoy meeting new people.</span><br /><br />Most of us say we enjoy meeting new people, but often gravitate towards those who are “comfortable” whether or not they are right for us or not. Once you can truthfully say that you enjoy meeting new people, then you can truthfully say that you are ready to join a free dating web site. Here you will have countless opportunities to meet both men and women who are like you and who also want to meet new people.<br /><br />Do not cheat yourself and be afraid to leave your comfort zone. Break out of your shell and meet new people that will add to your happiness on a free dating web site. This will cost you nothing but you may be able to gain everything by meeting new people and breaking out of your comfort zone.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-46467538115113674902008-02-13T23:58:00.000-08:002008-02-14T00:00:00.828-08:00Free Dating Tipauthor: Daryl Campbell<br />source: <a href="http://articlesbase.com">articlesbase.com</a><br /><br />Since we live in an information age that is active twenty four hours a day and seven days a week, it's easy to get overwhelmed by the countless options and decisions we are confronted with on a regular basis. Nowhere is this more apparent than dating<br /><br />Relationships between men and women have crossed a whole new threshold. Factor in some of the newer innovations like internet and speed dating and it becomes clear the possibilities seem almost endless. But times cannot change what many of us feel before, during and after a date. In spite of knowing the other person for quite some time, being comfortable with them in a different environment and getting an enthusiastic yes when you ask them for a date, it still does not stop your nerves from giving you plenty of grief.<br /><br />A big part of being nervous is of course you want the date to go right. Carefully planning a date and then watching it fall apart before your eyes is a nightmare we all dread. No question if you have ever experienced this, there is a little voice of doubt saying, "Here we go again." Another reason however is confidence. You may not have experienced a bad date or this may even be your first date but you still feel shaky. For some reason it always seems like the equivalent of having to do a public speaking engagement in front of a tough audience.<br /><br />It is not to that extreme but it can feel like you are auditioning and in a way you are. You are selling the product known as you and hope the prospective buyer (your date) like what they see and hear. If they so no then you are faced with rejection which no matter how you look at it can be very painful. All of us want to be wanted. It is easy to understand why anyone who has ever been rejected would be reluctant to try again. No is a simple word that packs a terrific punch that can shake anyone to the core.<br /><br />So what's the alternative? Not to date anyone and in the long run that's far worst. Never giving a relationship a chance because your nerves just could not stand anything nonconstructive can do more damage than experiencing rejection. Does rejection hurt? Yes but it doesn't mean that your world will come to an end. Just keep in mind that if they reject you then it is their loss.<br /><br />Your date is not on a pedestal. While you definitely want your date to accept you there is no reason to beg for it. It is all about give and take and realizing both of you are on the same level. Be confident in what you have to offer the other person. If they accept, then that is something to build on, if not then wish them well and keep looking for the person that is more in tune to your frequency; they do exist.<br /><br />Accept the fact that a certain amount of nervousness is going to exist and in some ways can keep you focused on the task at hand. But do everything in your power to make sure it does not take center stage. Relax and expect that you and your date will have a good time. With that mindset you will.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-14396971101710394752008-02-04T00:20:00.000-08:002008-02-04T00:25:08.459-08:00Porn Proof Your Relationshipby Mishaun Taylor<br />via <a href="http://articlesbase.com">articlesbase.com</a><br /><br />Porn can be a really sticky issue in a relationship. If you are afraid that your interest or your spouse's interest in porn could possibly turn into an addiction or cause other problems in your relationship, there are things you can do that might help. Here are some great tips to porn proof your relationship:<br /><br />1. Don't stop trying - One thing that can cause a relationship to grow distant and lead to porn problems is that the couple stops trying. If you remember the way your relationship was when you first married or first started dating, you probably remember that you did a lot of things to impress your spouse. As time progresses, we stop doing things like this because we become secure and comfortable within the relationship. When you continue to do these things for your spouse, things will stay more interesting and there will be less temptation to turn to porn.<br /><br />2. Don't be afraid to experiment - While you should certainly never do something that is going to make you feel uncomfortable, you shouldn't be afraid to experiment with your sexuality. Trying new things and tossing things up a bit from time to time can be a real turn-on for both of you and will keep things interesting in your relationship. You can explore each other's fantasies (within reason), you can role play and many other things that will keep both of you interested in each other and not a picture of something.<br /><br />3. Spend time together - Try to spend time with your spouse regularly, as this strengthens bonds and keeps you closer together. In fact, every once in a while you should take a mini vacation or a romantic weekend away. Very often, with the busy lives that we lead today, it can be easy to become distanced from your spouse. Taking time away to just enjoy each other can stop the temptation to turn to other things, such as porn.<br /><br />4. Initiate more often - If you are never the one to initiate sex within your relationship, you should most definitely do so. Your spouse may feel that you don't find them attractive if you never act as though you want to be intimate with them. When you show you are attracted to them and that you want to be intimate with them, it is a real turn-on and that will keep your spouse from turning to porn.<br /><br />5. Compliment your spouse - Many people turn to porn because they are seeking gratification and may feel insecure. If you make sure to compliment your spouse often, it will alleviate a lot of their insecurities. This will let them know that you find them attractive and they will feel less compelled to check out porn. When they have someone at home who finds them incredibly sexy, they will not have the need to indulge in fantasies online or in a magazine.<br /><br />Following these tips can help you prevent porn from coming into your relationship. When you take time to care for your relationship, you can make sure things like this don't become a concern in your life or in your marriageRoffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-70090300719721703322008-02-04T00:13:00.000-08:002008-02-04T00:20:34.391-08:00Online Tools To Help You Catch Your Partner Watching Internet PornAuthor: Mishaun Taylor<br />source: <a href="http://articlesbase.com">articlesbase.com</a><br /><br />If you are suspicious that your spouse or partner is watching internet porn, you probably feel a wide range of emotions. You are probably hopeful that you are wrong, scared that you might be right, and maybe betrayed or worried about what is wrong with you so much that it would drive your partner to do something like this. There is a rollercoaster full of emotions that you will have to deal with, but you need some type of proof in order to take action. Luckily, there are a ton of different resources you can utilize to find out for sure if your partner is watching internet porn. Here are some of the most effective tools that you can use right now to catch your partner watching internet porn.<br /><br />E-blaster -<br /><br />This is a downloadable software program that allows you to find out exactly what your spouse is doing online while you're not there. In fact, you can find out what they are doing if you're thousands of miles away. This software will record your spouse's e-mails, chats, instant messages, and keystrokes typed. Most importantly for someone who suspects online pornography, this software records exactly what websites your spouse visits. Then you get this recorded information sent to your e-mail address so you can find out exactly what is going on. This is a great way to catch him in the act of watching porn!<br /><br />Spector -<br /><br />This is a downloadable professional edition that works a bit differently from other types of software. Every hour, this software takes snapshots of what is on your computer as well as TRUE e-mail capture. It doesn't matter if your spouse's e-mail is a web-based e-mail such as Yahoo or Hotmail. It also features instant messenger capture as well as a key logger. You will be notified immediately if your computer visits inappropriate websites or if they participate in inappropriate web conversations. This software has been given the PC Magazine Editors' Choice award for best surveillance software.<br /><br />PC Pandora -<br /><br />This is another downloadable software that is virtually undetectable. With this program, you are able to review everything that happens on your computer or your spouse's computer. In fact, you are able to view e-mails, websites that have been visited, instant messages, and more. You can instantly find out what your spouse is looking at online and you will have the proof to confront him or her and finally seek some sort of help for the issue.<br /><br />No matter what kind of online tool you utilize, it is important to you that you find out the truth. If you are feeling like you or the marriage are threatened by your suspicions, this is the best way to find out what is really happening. You don't want to confront your spouse about this embarrassing issue unless you are sure that something is happening. However, once you receive your proof, you can handle the issue with the appropriate methods, whether it's counseling, some sort of group, etc. These are the best ways to get proof that your partner is watching internet porn.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-15439138056050713062008-01-24T05:57:00.000-08:002008-01-24T05:59:38.053-08:00Dating, Romance, Love And Marriage - How To Meet The Right WomanAuthor: Chloe Miller<br />Source: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/dating-romance-love-and-marriage-how-to-meet-the-right-woman-310572.html">Articlesbase.com</a><br /><br />So you are the knight in shining armor? The problem is, you don't have a princess to defend with. Let me share you something that is sitting right there, under your nose: "Women are everywhere and the right woman is one you can see strolling at the mall, bookstore, coffee bar, internet dating sites, work, clubs, etc." Now that you know that you realize that you don't to be somewhere special to meet the right women, the next thing your should learn is the art of the actually meeting her.<br /><br />Here are the ways:<br /><br />First, show confidence! You may not be aware of this but women are shyer then you are. Most women, especially those who are looking for the right man, love to be approached as well. So better get on your knees, approach someone and initiate a good conversation. Easier said that done right? One word my friend: "confidence!" Shaking knees and a mumbling mouth are things you should never have. Opportunity knocks only once so better grab it. If you see someone you like, approach her. With a right timing and proper approach, you will end up seating with her at a coffee bar all the way to a dinner table. Also, women love to see men who bear confidence. While this may not be an overnight success, you can always have your confidence developed. As they say, "right practice makes perfect", so practice, practice, and practice more. Start at your office and talk to women colleagues. Then initiate a conversation with the waitress at a restaurant or the cashier at the grocery. As you build confidence through casual conversations with people, you let go your shaking knees and mumbling mouth.<br /><br />Second, master the art of conversation. Now that you have finally had the guts to approach women, you should know how to initiate a conversation. Your first words will really make the difference between a "yes" to a dinner or a something like this: "Hi, what's your name" and she replies "Hi, I'm leaving". Pick up lines like, "Gee, that's a nice set of legs, what time do they open?" or "Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!" are something that will definitely end a conversation that hasn't begun at all. Make good at this by being sincere, being spontaneous, and not sounding so desperate. Again, it takes practice so if your first approach to a woman at the mall is not successful, do not stop trying. A good sense of humor is always a winner to good women so have them on your reserve and take them out when necessary.<br /><br />An approach and conversation is not enough. You still need the follow up. So the third thing you should do is to know how to keep a woman wanting. A first date can only have a take two if the woman finds that you are interesting so keep her guessing. Do not tell everything about yourself during the first date. Not only you will dominate the whole conversation and piss your date off, you will also have nothing to say on your second date if ever it will happen. Keep her wanting like the "Arabian Nights".<br /><br />Most men think that pampering their lady will keep her wanting him. The fact is, it is entirely the exact opposite. Did you ever wonder why many women love "bad boys"? It is because "bad boys" give no regard with women in the way they treat them. Women who are often pampered by men feel that they have the need to get everything they want so they are on a hot pursuit to "bad boys" who keep on playing hard to get.<br /><br />Finally, meeting the right men does not end up on having the right confidence, knowing the proper way approach, and keeping women wanting because a meeting the right women may not end on a single try. You may have dated a woman and have successfully done all these 3 but still, she does not fit to the definition of "the one" for you. Meeting the right woman is a never-ending process until you are finally convinced that she is "the one".Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-86430515681528771562008-01-24T05:48:00.000-08:002008-01-24T05:53:48.020-08:005 Mistakes Women Make With Men<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/49/189581652_958f489b38.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px;" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/49/189581652_958f489b38.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />For some women, sustaining a worthwhile relationship with a man is almost like trying to win the lottery. They have no trouble talking to men or even dating them, but for whatever reason they can not build enough attraction from their partners to keep them coming back for more. Here are some mistakes women make that can send a man running in the opposite direction.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Too Much Information</span><br /><br />While it is important to get to know the person you are dating, some women simply don't leave enough to the imagination. If you find yourself talking about family problems and old boyfriends on your first few dates, then chances are that you are guilty of revealing too much. The initial period of dating should be absolute bliss for both sides, and not dragged down by skeletons in the closet.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Not Enough Listening</span><br /><br />It can be refreshing to meet new people and have the opportunity to share your opinions and dreams, just remember that your new man is also excited to the same. Taking control of the conversation or forcing your ideals on someone is not romantic. Make sure you provide adequate openings in your dialogue for responses. A simple way to make sure you are not taking over the spotlight is to ask your date questions. This will give them a chance to share their feelings without interrupting you.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Dishonesty</span><br /><br />Some women become so self-conscious about themselves that they stretch the truth about everything from finances to outside interests. They want so badly to attract a good man that they believe saying what he wants to hear is the easiest route to take. Of course this strategy may work for the first few dates, but ultimately the truth will come out and you will be exposed. Being honest keeps your conscience clear and will help you meet someone with the same interests as you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">High Expectations</span><br /><br />It is natural to be excited about the prospect of new love, but you have to be careful not to let expectations spoil the fun. Guys don't want to hear about your plans for marriage and family life early in a relationship. You have to attract them with your personality and charm before they will even consider a second date. The bottom line is to let things progress naturally. Not only can expectations eliminate a perfectly suitable candidate, but they take the spontaneity out of romance.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Controlling Yourself</span><br /><br />The big secret to making a man want you is creating a curiosity or mystery about yourself. You want him to fantasize about you and wonder which direction your romance will take him. For this reason you need to lead him along slowly. Control your passions and keep him coming back for more. Be patient to see if he will wait for you. If he does then you know you have the beginning of a strong attraction.<br /><br />There is good reason why some women consistently falter with men while others seem to catch them like fish. It is all about presentation and focusing on the natural male desires. This means making him feel good about himself and keeping him guessing on what your next move will be. Avoiding mistakes like talking too much and creating ridiculous expectations will give you the opportunity to set this strategy in motion.<br /><br />Author: Elliot Beers<br />source: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/5-mistakes-women-make-with-men-312659.html">Articlesbase.com</a>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-11344461054348750652008-01-22T05:22:00.000-08:002008-01-22T05:27:41.289-08:005 Top Online Dating Sites 2008<div style="text-align: justify;">Dating sites have been filling the demands for millions of people world wide by providing a number of quality services. Many sites have amassed a large database of members and they give you a larger pool to choose from. We have outlined some information to help you research which service will be the best one for you.<br /><br />1. <span style="font-weight: bold;">eHarmony</span> is known for marketing themselves as the #1 trusted relationship service in America. Their mission statement revolves around allowing people to find meaningful relationships that will last a lifetime. Millions of people of all ages, ethnicity, and religious backgrounds have used eHarmony's patented <span style="font-weight: bold;">"Compatibility Matching System"</span> to find the love of their lives.<br /><br />2. <span style="font-weight: bold;">PerfectMatch.com</span> centers around the <span style="font-weight: bold;">Duet Compatibility System</span> and was designed to serve the needs of the relationship-oriented adult, not the casual dater. Duet is designed to uncover real compatibility between their members. All Members have committed to the online interviewing process.<br /><br />The best feature they offer is accurate matching, and they do an excellent job of doing that. For over 3 decades they have perfected their profile system for people who are looking for their perfect match. This is the foundation of their service and they have the longevity to prove it.<br /><br />3. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Match.com</span> has a monthly membership fee of $9.95 - 24.95. It's 15 million members communicate through e-mail or chat. It takes great pride in its user friendly site which offers side by side comparisons of each others requirements to facilitate the "search."<br /><br />4. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Great Expectations</span> ask you for your zip code and get right down to business by locating potential dates for you by location. If there is no one in your area you know it right up front. They pay close attention to details and have been around for many years. They report a high success rate and are a great choice if you live in or near a large city where there are more members to choose from.<br /><br />5. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Yahoo Personals</span> offer high quality photos and fast searches. When you get a 7 day free trial you will be able to use their service and decide whether or not you would like to become a paid member. They have over 8 million members and they are one of the biggest dating services in the world. They make it extremely easy to join their site. With so many photos to view you should be able to find someone who interests you.<br /><br />In the end, you will make the final decision on what dating site is best for you. Now you can use this information for doing more research on the internet before you make your final decision.<br /><br />source <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/5-top-online-dating-sites-311225.html">articlesbase.com</a><br /></div>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-27102034318057535222008-01-19T09:33:00.000-08:002008-01-19T09:35:12.711-08:00Online Dating Questions: What Should I Ask a Prospective Match?Online dating can be loads of fun. <br /><br />Since the beginning, the online dating world has brought people together who would never have met in any other way. Online dating makes it easy to find prospective matches and to make true love connections.<br /><br />Still, there are precautions that each online dating participant needs to take, and there are specific questions that each person should ask their prospective matches before they agree to meet or even to share any personally identifiable information.<br /><br />It's important to keep in mind that online dating is best seen as a systematic process. It works best when you perceive it as a continuous process by which you select and receive representations of potential matches. If you find someone in whom you are interested, it is still a process as you get to know one another.<br /><br />To be on the safe side, you need to retain your anonymity during this entire process until you are absolutely sure that the person you are communicating with is being honest with you. It is very important to know which questions to ask so you can get a better idea of whom you are really talking to.<br /><br />Here are a few online dating questions that you should ask your prospective match to determine his or her personality and attitude. These questions are designed to help you get the information you need to make a determination about a person's true personal convictions.<br /><br />Make sure that, when you ask these questions, they are not perceived to be confrontational in any way. Try to be as natural as possible when posing these questions, and make sure you are ready to answer the questions when they are posed to you, as well.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 1. What do you think is the biggest mistake that people make when they are brand new to online dating? </span><br /><br />Asking this question will give you some insight into how the person thinks about potential mates. You may get some insight into what the person thinks, in general, about the opposite sex, as well as what their personal beliefs might be when it comes to relationships.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 2. What are you looking for in a potential mate? </span><br /><br />When you ask this question, you can get an idea of what kind of traits the person is looking for. If the person answers the question with a joke or with another question directed back to you, it may be a sign that they don't really know. Or it may be a sign that he or she is not looking for a long-term relationship at all.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 3. How would you define a successful relationship? What does a good relationship look like to you? </span><br /><br />It is amazing how many different ways this question can be answered. For example, some people may say that a good relationship means spending every day together. For others, a good relationship is one in which each person has a degree of freedom and autonomy in daily life. It's important to discern both what you enjoy in a relationship as well as to know what your prospective mate would most enjoy.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 4. What do you think about online dating? </span><br /><br />With this question, you'll be able to determine if the person you are connecting with has ever had any negative experiences in the online dating world, as well as what might have caused these types of experiences.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> 5. Why did your last relationship end? </span><br /><br />This is a touchy one. Many of us are likely to blame the other person for the end of a relationship. But others place the blame entirely on themselves. Find out your prospective mate's relationship history in as natural (and non-confrontational) a way as possible.<br /><br />Asking good questions will give you an advantage in finding someone with whom you are truly compatible. Start with questions like the ones above, and when you come across more good relationship questions, make note of them and continue to pose them to prospective mates until you find someone who is just right for you.<br /><br />source: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/online-dating-questions-what-should-i-ask-a-prospective-match--309229.html">articlesbase.com</a><br />author: Jamie JeffersonRoffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-32637030386400296962008-01-19T06:20:00.000-08:002008-01-19T06:32:29.557-08:005 Aphrodisiacs That Are Within Your Reach<div style="text-align: justify;">Since time immemorial, people all across the world have been searching for a miracle food that will help raise their sexual desire or that of their partners. Some believe that oysters are effective in increasing libido, while others tend to put their faith in exotic foods, such as the balls of an Asian tiger or a bark of a tree that can only be found in the Amazon. Although many attest to the effectiveness of such aphrodisiacs, studies and research that back these suppositions are still lacking.<br /><br />You do not have to climb the steepest mountain or brave uncharted jungles just to find a delicacy to rekindle your sex life. You just need to find out what types of food could help raise hormones that are needed to jumpstart sizzling nights with your spouse. To help reactivate your sex life with your beloved, try incorporating these five common foods to your diet and marvel at the results in a couple of days or weeks.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Dark Chocolate</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a154/foodhoe/july07/ms-cake2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 120px; height: 127px;" src="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a154/foodhoe/july07/ms-cake2.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>A person who is in a state of anxiety and stress is usually not in the mood for some steamy sex at night or even the following morning. Eliminate stress, be more relaxed and happy and you will be more open to the prospect of doing the deed with your partner all night long. One of the reasons why dark chocolate is on top of the list of foods that help spark an active sex life is that it promotes the production of endorphins, a hormone that makes individuals feel good, relaxed and happy. If you don't want to ruin your curves, just eat a couple of dark chocolate squares after dinner and wait for your mood to change from catty to naughty.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Honey</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i284/arcadiam/DSCN3216-honey-spiral_crop_b1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 131px; height: 174px;" src="http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i284/arcadiam/DSCN3216-honey-spiral_crop_b1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Taking a few teaspoonfuls of honey a day can actually do wonders for your sexual relationship with your partner. Since this bee-produced sweetener is a simple carbohydrate, it is a main source of instant energy. Moreover, pure and unadulterated honey contains boron and B vitamins. Boron is needed by the body in order to use female sex hormone estrogen, which plays an important role in the arousal of women. B vitamins, on the other hand, are vital in the production of male sex hormone testosterone.<br /><br />Celery<br /><br />This green stalk is not only a must for dieters, but also the missing ingredient in reviving sexual attraction between long-time couples. According to experts, raw celery is a good source of androsterone, a male hormone that helps mimic the effect of pheromone that makes a man more attractive and irresistible to women. For guys out there, if you want to be more alluring than Johnny Depp in the eyes of your girlfriend or wife, remember to eat a few stalks of celery a day. Women can also benefit from eating celery because it helps elevate their mood.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Banana</span><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i177.photobucket.com/albums/w228/originalruby/banana.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 99px; height: 74px;" src="http://i177.photobucket.com/albums/w228/originalruby/banana.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>When you are in your 40s or 50s, your stamina or endurance in the bedroom start to wane. Copulation that used to last for several hours is replaced with a short and often unsatisfying sexual encounter. In order to improve endurance for some foreplay and the main act itself, you ought to eat a piece of this yellow fruit, which also aids in the production of testosterone, a few hours before trying to get it on with your partner.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Ginger</span><br /><br />You may think that this pungent root is an unlikely candidate for an aphrodisiac. However, ginger is actually valuable in promoting good blood flow, particularly in the genital area. If you don't like to eat ginger before the act because of fear of bad breath, you can actually just sniff fresh ginger to increase blood flow to your vaginal or penile area and increase that organ's sensitivity.<br /><br />If you are not keen on eating any of the food mentioned above, you can actually just look for supplements that can help increase your libido. For women, you can take Fematril to help get you in the mood for some bedroom action. Learn more about this product by visiting www.fematril.com.</div>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-58596015457672913692008-01-12T06:43:00.000-08:002008-12-09T23:58:10.652-08:00Is the Cost of on Line Dating Really Worth It?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOIkx45SCF87UwY_0_jCtX91uKOgc2QJhhZBppPpwYvg9DGSlLsSyVEVyRseo-rQw1WotUvzrZ7_Dp_dxHZCo_MltCRadIiXqgvlOZKX5LnY_J0lzkpmVH3M5UI4y9Im1481BHn_fDwgo/s1600-h/174208801_f96fd4e58c-718714.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOIkx45SCF87UwY_0_jCtX91uKOgc2QJhhZBppPpwYvg9DGSlLsSyVEVyRseo-rQw1WotUvzrZ7_Dp_dxHZCo_MltCRadIiXqgvlOZKX5LnY_J0lzkpmVH3M5UI4y9Im1481BHn_fDwgo/s320/174208801_f96fd4e58c-718714.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5154601925570399682" border="0" /></a>Author <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/alan-lim/31890.htm">Alan Lim</a><br />via <a href="http://articlesbase.com/">articlesbase.com</a><br /><br />Despite the availability of on line dating services provided for free, there are still quite a good number of people who sign up for paid dating sites. In fact, on line dating is one of the most lucrative industries today. It probably makes you wonder why people are willing to pay to meet strangers when they can do it traditionally without having to pay a cent. More importantly, why are people willing to spend tens of dollars monthly when they can avail of free dating services? Let us examine this further.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> The Cost of On Line Dating</span><br /><br />Most dating sites charge anywhere from $10 to $30 per month. Some of them charge annual fees of more than a thousand dollars. There are hundreds of dating services provided online which are free of charge. You can actually sign up through this site, meet new people, engage in no-cost courtship then finally meet when everything is in place. The only thing you might need to pay for is your Internet connection.<br /><br />What makes paid on line dating sites popular? Well first of all, paid Internet dating sites claim that since their members are paying money, they show some form of willingness to commitment which is necessary if you want to develop a romantic, long-term relationship. They further insist that those that go for free sites are only interested in meeting people and playing around without having to risk a dime.<br /><br />For example, dating sites which charge a thousand dollars yearly have been geared towards attracting the well-paid and rich professionals who do not have that much time to look for potential partners. With these sites, they are able to find those who are as capable and as well-paid as they are. If they sign up for these high maintenance sites, they can be pretty sure that they will meet someone who are committed and powerful enough to have a thousand to spare a year for such purpose.<br /><br />Imagine though how traditional dating is like. You will surely spend money and time on blind dates, try to develop relationships in your office, or go to the club on Saturdays. Hard it is to admit, some even pay to be able to have some intimate but quick contact.<br /><br />The bottom line is, dating really costs some amount of money. Activities such as movies, dinner at restaurants, going to concerts and shows, and so on, require money especially among men. For women, you need to buy some nice clothes or get that dress that matches your shoes to make you look your best. All these you need to spend for without assurance that you will have the chemistry with your date to pursue an actual romantic relationship.<br /><br />If you look at it closely, $10 to $30 a month through an on line dating site may seem cheaper as compared to the costs of traditional dating. At least with Internet dating, you have already gone past the get-to-know stage and are more or less certain that there is some compatibility that you can both bank on. Of course, free on line dating sites can also be an option. Whichever you choose, the cost of on line dating is, in the long run, really worth it.Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-63672109613655093182008-01-12T06:39:00.000-08:002008-12-09T23:58:10.884-08:00The advantage of internet dating<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2kNPUTgqYWhQtmEk8w6o-bEbW7QaLr3TUOfi2p3ibuVQggWp3ABGSoUt-to1v-9QZvTeDM2MXAXGkjZxTCQyUVL940hvITOhzVoxXx8i9pd4xs7YqcQJyEVMJRyBIInjKs_zxjZ0iXuc/s1600-h/melbourne-internet-dating.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2kNPUTgqYWhQtmEk8w6o-bEbW7QaLr3TUOfi2p3ibuVQggWp3ABGSoUt-to1v-9QZvTeDM2MXAXGkjZxTCQyUVL940hvITOhzVoxXx8i9pd4xs7YqcQJyEVMJRyBIInjKs_zxjZ0iXuc/s320/melbourne-internet-dating.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5154600473871453618" border="0" /></a>Author: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/alan-lim/31890.htm">Alan Lim</a><div style="text-align: justify;" class="KonaBody"><div id="ArtBody"><p>via articlesbase.com</p><p>Singles often find it difficult to date especially if they haven't been "out there" for quite some time. Good thing there is internet dating. Dating on the internet gives you lots of opportunities to choose from, and since it is now widely used all over the world, you are now able to get to know other people in just a click.<br /><br />Dating in the Internet is accessible to all people who are looking for companions. And since it is now widely used as an alternative to traditional dating, singles are given more chances to find a match of their own. Internet dating in itself has been found to be the easiest way to find a mate. Even if you narrow your search down to your interests and hobby, you will still find quite a heap of people that match to your category. Be careful not to be too choosy in selecting a potential mate. You can go around a little bit and explore what you haven't tried yet.<br /><br />Since it is now commonly used by singles, people within it are not labelled as desperate anymore, and you can now be "out there" without looking too aggressive. Realizing that you are not alone and that many people are also dating through the internet is refreshing for some people. It gives us the opportunity to look for a match, and be comfortable with it.<br /><br />Internet dating is also best for people who are not used to approaching people in person. It gives the shy opportunity to do what they cannot do in person. Therefore, there are more chances of them showing their true self through internet dating. It also gives you the opportunity to meet other people in different areas of the world, or different areas of expertise. It breaks down the barriers that were set before you (e.g. different jobs, different social circles).<br /><br />Ideally, there is a picture that is posted in each profile. In that way, you can see who you are writing to. It also helps if you have an idea of what the person you're writing to looks like. It aids you to put together words that match what that person looks like. After several exchange of messages, both of you can decide if you take things further by sending each other e-mails, giving out your phone numbers, and even meeting in person. There are lots of possibilities where your initial contact could end to. If, however, both of you decides you aren't going through the relationship anymore, you can remain friends and still keep each other. In that way, you can expand your social circle and it helps to have a lot of friends.<br /><br />Internet dating has lots of advantages. Through it, you can now easily meet people from different walks of life, you can get to know them without being too scared that you might scare them away, and shy people can now do what they can't do in person. It also gives us the notion that not all that dates over the internet is desperate because it is now commonly used by singles. By means of internet dating, you can put yourself out there and enjoy while you're in it. Good things come to those who wait, so have fun while waiting, and don't forget to look. You'll never know if the person for you has been right in front of you all along.<br /></p></div></div>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-13201799990237184282008-01-12T06:30:00.000-08:002008-12-09T23:58:11.053-08:00Free Dating Grows In Choice<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrdvDBeLiNfxjTu0j60YlQ1SHtSPYmJupfzIDG4uchUjyK8kbmRK4cOhmoMCuwRnzikRCOvOlz6CrnNLj9xB5jXdLtZQk_8un9F81g84JIJ1_XpJ2SaEUiXH00CcId9Sd1YpNNAHz_Q1I/s1600-h/couple2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrdvDBeLiNfxjTu0j60YlQ1SHtSPYmJupfzIDG4uchUjyK8kbmRK4cOhmoMCuwRnzikRCOvOlz6CrnNLj9xB5jXdLtZQk_8un9F81g84JIJ1_XpJ2SaEUiXH00CcId9Sd1YpNNAHz_Q1I/s320/couple2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5154599108071853474" border="0" /></a>Author: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/mark-evans/43807.htm">Mark Evans</a><br />via articlesbase.com<br /><br />When the internet first became popular in the late nineties, totally free dating sites were impossible to find, the best that could be found was a free trial for a limited period. Usually this allowed you to try out some of the features, initiate contact with a few members before being asked to pay without you really knowing how effective the site was for your needs. Worse still were the dating sites that hid their charges, or made it difficult to cancel recurring payments if you did get your credit card out and sign up.<br /><br />Another issue with paid dating sites was that only a minority of profiles are actual fully paying customers. Therefore even if you are a paying customer, only a small number of profiles can actually reply back to you due to their limited free memberships.<br /><br />Obviously this did not encourage you to try out too many different dating sites, the only real method of trusting a dating site was word of mouth from satisfied customers.<br /><br />However, 3 or 4 years ago, all that started to change and now totally free dating sites can be found on the web for all tastes. No need for free trials or making use of a restricted number of features. Free dating now offers the full range of standard features, such as messaging, chat and search, whilst some also arrange free events for members.<br /><br />These free sites are largely funded by running ads in order to cover their costs for hosting and web development. The quality of these sites has improved a lot, though of course the quality in terms of designs and features varies widely.<br /><br />A feature of all dating and community sites are fake profiles and these can be more of a problem on free sites so it is important to be extra vigilant to identify and remove these nuisance members. Many of these members attempt to scam other members and typically originate in West African countries. There are various methods that free sites can adopt to keep these scammers out.<br /><br />This allows you to try out a variety of sites to see which ones you like, though we would recommend you sign-up to perhaps 2 or 3 at most, at any time in order to fully devote the time and effort to getting the most from each.<br /><br />Obviously, being able to try out a variety of free sites means you save money and will likely interact with a greater number and variety of people.<br /><br />That aside, free dating can provide a great experience to meet new people, have fun online and get to know new partners in a safe and interesting way.<br /><br />Sugar Daddy Babes was created so that people could enjoy adult dating online and hopefully find it enjoyable and successful in helping them meet partners. Our goal was to make the site easy to use, fast, and above all completely free. A dating site that is quick, easy and free is what most singles are looking for.<br /><br />We encourage members to provide feedback and request any new features they would like to see that would make our free dating experience even better.<br /><br />Happy Dating!Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9216071563056584898.post-82098408009277427282008-01-12T06:24:00.000-08:002008-12-09T23:58:11.256-08:005 ways to attract a man<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4PwuyjfxupaQl0BK-ZWgSWHdK9yzCxeWisshn-q3PE0Dng2LB9YUchUWTB2bEaz_z84mKTn-uUgLuPnf0swuHp-n9_uvOZHT4e8xoQpx7abx6d7A6RMa7mmwti_R50sTMLqhT9VmyXZY/s1600-h/attract-approach-women-9.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4PwuyjfxupaQl0BK-ZWgSWHdK9yzCxeWisshn-q3PE0Dng2LB9YUchUWTB2bEaz_z84mKTn-uUgLuPnf0swuHp-n9_uvOZHT4e8xoQpx7abx6d7A6RMa7mmwti_R50sTMLqhT9VmyXZY/s320/attract-approach-women-9.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5154597252645981586" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">author: <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/elliot-beers/17256.htm">Elliot Beers</a><br />via <a href="http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/5-ways-to-attract-a-man-302345.html">articlesbase.com</a><br /><br />Too many women have trouble attracting the men they desire. They get frustrated watching all the "good men" get hitched by their competitors, even though they have all the characteristics to be a great girlfriend. But there things that can help women capture the man of their dreams. Here are five tips for getting off to a successful start.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Be Confident</span><br /><br />Beyond physical characteristics, confidence is the second most common attribute that men look for in women. No man wants to spend his days with someone who lacks the desire to achieve their dreams. This is why is so important to portray yourself as a confident women who is ready to get the most out of life. Don't be afraid to talk about your goals and where you see yourself in the future. Men like to visualize how things will be down the road, and they want a strong woman with high expectations.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Get in His Network</span><br /><br />It is not always easy to approach a guy you don't know personally, and sometimes it is easier to enter through the back door. If you are having trouble getting access to your dream date, try to identify a common friend or co-worker you both know. Even if you can't find a common link, it is often easier to introduce yourself to third party that you don't have strong feelings for. You can then use them to get some face-time with your target man.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Build Mystery</span><br /><br />Just like a good book, a strong attraction builds slowly with surprises around every corner. Don't share all of intimate secrets with your man in the first week of meeting him. Give him some incentive to come back for more by suggesting things in the future. You also want to flirt and tease him gently. End each encounter with a feeling of expectation for the next time you meet.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Be Attractive</span><br /><br />If you don't feel comfortable with your appearance then it will definitely show through in your actions. Thus you should pay careful attention to how you look around your dream guy. Don't go overboard, but take some time to plan how you will dress and act around your man in each possible situation. Perception is everything, and while you want to be noticed, you also want to convey the right message at all times.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Learn More</span><br /><br />You should be keeping a mental inventory of the way your man dresses, what he likes, and what he dislikes. The first few encounters set the tone for the rest of your relationship. Learn everything you can about him by listening to what he talks about, paying attention to his actions, and talking with others who know him. Even the smallest nugget of information could mean the difference between impressing him and having him run in the other direction.<br /><br />Attracting a man is doesn't have to be rocket science if you plan a successful strategy. The key is to always consider what type of reaction your actions will generate. By creating a confident and inviting persona for yourself, you can captivate any man's attention. From there you need to plan each step of your approach, being careful not to do anything that will hurt your chances of taking it to the next level.</div>Roffi Grandiosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02898447878334595678noreply@blogger.com0